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The Flow of a Meal

Follow a meal from being seated to leaving the table, sit with graceful posture, and keep the conversation comfortable.

6 min

  • Flow of a Meal

    Know the steps from sitting down to leaving.

  • Graceful Posture

    Sit well and know where your personal items belong.

  • Gracious Conversation

    Choose topics everyone enjoys.

Once seated, spread your napkin on your lap rather than tucking it into your collar, and wait until everyone has been served before you begin. When you finish, rest your knife and fork together to signal the server.

Sit up straight, about one or two fist-widths from the table, and keep your elbows off it. Between bites, Europeans often rest their wrists lightly on the table, while Americans tend to keep their hands in their lap. Place your handbag behind your back or at your feet, and keep your phone put away.

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