You've booked an anniversary dinner this weekend
Date Night & Anniversaries
Before a date or anniversary dinner, review your napkin and glasses, the courses, table talk and dessert — plus the dress code and a prep checklist.
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- Table Setting · 6 minUsing Your NapkinSo the first few minutes at the table feel natural and relaxed.Start
- Table Setting · 6 minGlasses and WineTo handle a toast and being poured wine without second-guessing which glass is which.Start
- At the Table · 6 minCourses and Cutlery SignalsTo know the order of the courses and how to signal you're finished, so you can enjoy the flow.Sign in to unlock
- Conversation · 5 minEating and TalkingSo you can savor the food and still give your partner your full attention.Sign in to unlock
- At the Table · 5 minDessert and CoffeeTo end the evening gracefully, right through dessert and coffee.Sign in to unlock
Read beforehand
- The Flow of a Course MealA course meal moves from appetizer to dessert in a set order. Knowing what comes next keeps you relaxed and free to focus on the people around you.
- Wine and ToastsLeave your glass on the table while wine is poured. For a toast, raise it to eye level and meet people’s eyes.
- How to Hold a Wine GlassHold a stemmed glass by its stem. Your hand won’t warm the wine, and the bowl stays free of fingerprints.
- Phones at the TablePut your phone away during the meal and give your time to the people in front of you.
- Dress Codes Explained“Black tie,” “cocktail” and “smart casual” on an invitation or a restaurant's website tell you how formal to dress. Here's what each level usually means and what to do when you're unsure.
Check what to wear
Dress codeSmart casual
- Check the dress code on the restaurant's official site, or ask when you book.
- Smart casual usually means a collared shirt or jacket, or a simple, polished dress.
- Matching each other's level of dress helps you both feel at home in the room — and in photos.
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